A lot of the hobbies that bring me joy and fulfilment are those of a “bigger” nature. There’s a dream job that I hope to get someday.
I have aspirations and life goals that I want to achieve that are outside of all this. The appeal of this fantasy isn’t lost to me but as an overthinker it also sounds kinda awful. I know a lot of littles and adult babies enjoy the fantasy of a daddy or big regressing them (sometimes slowly without the little even knowing, other times through more forceful means) until they are just a baby with no adult responsibilities at all. This subject makes me think of something I’ve wanted to talk about and get off my chest. Cherish it and protect it: whether you’re a little one or a Daddy.Ĭategories ABDLDaddy Discord, Adult Baby, Ask Daddy, Being a Baby, DDLB, Diaper Lovers, Regression Tags abdl crib, abdl discord, abdl feelings, adult baby experiences, adult baby regression There will always be some part of you which is a baby or little boy. They can help remind you that even when you’re going through very adult stuff that deep inside you’re still a wonderful little boy who needs diapers, who needs all of those creative, expressive and wonderful things which make adult baby and diaper boys such a gift to the world. Who you can tell that you’ve been too busy, too stressed out, too anxious. Time away from being little can be important and can actually refresh your creativity!īut I also think it’s important to have a support system: friends, big brothers, little brothers….people who you can share with. Superman is a better Superman in part because of his time as Clark Kent: learning what it’s like when the rest of the world sees you as “normal”, but secretly knowing that at anytime you can rip off your clothes and show the onesie and diaper hidden underneath! And just like any superhero, they don’t need to show their powers all the time!
I like to remind little ones that they have a secret super power. What happens when life gets too busy? What happens when all of the stress at school makes you feel like you can’t get into “little space”? Does it mean you’re turning into…*gasp*…an adult? And so this struggle to feel “little” can be difficult! After a hard day at school, Daddy can help him slowly ‘shake off’ all of the stresses and energies: give a hug, a bath, and get him changed into a clean diaper and cute onesie. What a Daddy CAN do is help to ease the transitions. But at the end of the day, a baby boy needs to decide (for example) how open he wants to be with family or in class. He can encourage, listen, help him think through consequences. A Daddy shouldn’t make those choices for him. How much he wants to bring his little side into these environments is a choice. He might LOOK that way to the rest of the world: to family or at work, in school or with certain groups of friends. I don’t want anyone to think that full-time babyhood isn’t a wonderful dream!Ī Daddy’s job, however, is more complicated: it’s to help a little one find the right balance between his “little” and “bigger” sides. I want his diapers to be a constant reminder that there is a side to him that he needs to embrace, a symbol of his little side, a crinkly reminder that he accepts that he is better off being cared for by others. I want him to learn to use his diapers without thinking. They want to sleep in a crib, be fed in a high chair, wear diapers 24/7, be put in a playpen during the day and given a bath at night.Īs a Daddy, I love the idea! I love the idea of being able to care for a little one and create a fully encompassing space where he can explore what it means to be little, obedient, vulnerable and protected. They want to live a life where they are regressed to ‘babyhood’. And often, especially when they’ve never had face-to-face experiences with other ABDLs, big bros or Daddies, they express a dream of regression. I’ve had lots of little ones reach out to me. I was thinking about this again based on a question in the ABDL Discord from Theo:Īs age players, how do we hold onto that sense of childhood while integrating into adult life in a healthy manner? How Little Should a Little Be? To regress him to his ‘true state’: a baby boy who needs his daddy. Your goal? To help him forget about his adult side. You need to get him used to the sleepers and onesies, the cribs and high chairs. Then, you need to slowly replace all of the adult things in his life. If you’re a Daddy to an adult baby boy, the task can seem daunting: first, you need to unpotty train him.